Taking Matters Into My Capable Hands

My very first blog post ever here was about "Plan Kick Ass." It was what I called a plan to rid all toxins from my diet and radically change my habits for the better. It has come and gone through the years. Typically with food addiction taking the drivers seat and veering me back into old habits. 

My dinner the other night. Cheese tortellini with gorgonzola alfredo sauce and roasted broccoli. It was even more delicious than it looks.

Cheese, butter, sweets, carbs... are all very hard for me to resist. Eight years later I'm ready to try again. But this time I have AI to help me.

With the help of Hal (what I call Copilot on my phone) I made a complete list of all the foods that are the very best for mitochondrial health. I then formed a meal plan around those foods. It is a complete, Vegan, protein and antioxidant heavy diet. No animal products at all. 

Matcha tea instead of coffee every morning.

What it also lacks are replacement foods. No Earth Balance instead of butter. No Impossible Beef instead of burger. And sadly, not even some fake buffalo "chicken" instead of real chicken on my salad. Nope. Whole grains, beans, fruits and vegetables. The closest thing I get to eating anything "fun" is dark chocolate. This... is... going... to... be... hard.

My research added to my 2026 journal.

BUT. If it will help me lose some weight to help my strength and mobility. Heal my mitochondria and allow me to have more stamina and less fatigue? Well... There's very little I wouldn't do for that.

First comes food. Then hopefully if I'm feeling stronger and more energetic I can increase my activity. Keep your fingers crossed for me. Welcome to 2026. My body won't know what hit it. 

Happy New Year!

Plans for 2019

I tend to keep a journal off and on. It's not a traditional "Dear Diary' type. More of doodles, lists, feelings, thoughts and plans. I like to go back and re-read them at times to see how much I've grown. This entry from 2017 really stood out to me and I found it share worthy.

I was still in graduate school at the time. This is a good snapshot of what chronic illness feels like. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

Here are the "goals" that I have been setting for myself through the years. I notice I didn't do it last year. I think that's because I had just graduated and felt I had enough to focus on with my job hunt.

More here about "Beginners Mind" if you're curious. 

"UPR" is a psychological term that means Unconditional Positive Regard.

On January 2018 I deleted my Facebook account. 

It took about an hour and a lot of Googling to figure out how to do it. Facebook is like that crazy ex who doesn't want you to go, peering through your window, hoping you'll change your mind. I can say with all honesty it was the best thing I could have done for my mental health. I was very much addicted to it (though less than most people I know.) I encourage everyone to engage in as little social networking as possible and spend that time deeply engaging with people in the real world.

Alone Together

Back in May I did a post where I shared a picture I had done in my journal. It encapsulated how I was feeling at the time. I said "I bet a lot of people feel like this, like they just slipped below the surface. Just dipped out of range. Other healthy people live on one level while you're just out of reach. You can come up to their level, but it's a lot of work... Then you dip down again"

I've been thinking about that picture ever since and noticed a few things.

1. I noticed that I didn't use the word "I" once. I was speaking in a generalized way about something I was personally feeling. 
2. I was feeling like it's me vs. everyone else who must be healthier than I was feeling at the time. That's a huge assumption.

Today I did another picture on the same theme. I said "In reality it's more like this... Everyone struggling with their own private challenges."

Again, I can't help but notice I didn't use the word "I." Although this little doodle might be more culturally accurate I think I drifted even further away from myself. I'm nowhere here. Just anonymous people trapped by their own challenges (despite the ladders everywhere.) 

Art is a useful language when words fail. Even though I was attempting to do a new drawing showing a more communal, mutual struggle I think it looks like I'm still feeling withdrawn and isolated. 

Noticing these things is very important for me. I feel like it means I need to connect with people more. It's not easy to do when I feel so drained being social and I don't have easy answers when people ask how I'm doing and what's going on with my health. The combination just makes me want to stay home and take a nap. But I know that's not healthy for me.

I made a new friend at aqua aerobics and we're having coffee Friday. I also e-mailed a friend this morning suggesting a few dates for lunch. But I notice I've been really struggling with my mood lately. Nothing about this is easy and I'm just doing the best that I can. I'm trying to have some kindness with myself and just ride these waves of emotion as they come.

Gentle Reminders

I have a few favorites in my journal. Things I like to go back and refer to. These two are particularly worth sharing today:

Yes!
One of the reasons I love gardening. 

I read a while back on another chronic illness blog that you can't live your life with sickness at the middle of it. I firmly believe that is true (no matter what the challenge is.) When you just go from appointment to appointment or even symptom to symptom you aren't really LIVING your life. You're just surviving. Of course there are exceptions to this. But typically to go from reaction to reaction is more damaging than the thing you're reacting to.

When I say "don't turn into your family" to myself it's a reminder to not just stop living. That's what my grandmother has done with her chronic illnesses and she's miserable. I don't know what she's living for. She just drifts from appointment to appointment from pain pill to pain pill. It's no life that I want to have. 

I try hard to remember this and instead of going from crisis to crisis I plan. I do. I go. I create. I invent. I discover. I explore. I may have to work around or with things, but I'm not letting these challenges rule my life. 

That's what the journal entry you see above was about. A reminder of things that make me happy and that make life worth living. If you're just going from crisis to crisis, always just reacting, then life isn't really worth living. Savor. Enjoy. Play!