So here's the thing. I have always had very good willpower as an adult. I achieved three college degrees in about ten years despite my ADD, contracting TB and taking my license examination during the beginning of COVID with a migraine in a wheelchair. I have willpower.
So why is having willpower with food so hard?
Addictions are different than other "accomplishment" based achievements in my experience. I once quit smoking and it was incredibly hard. I also "failed" many times before being able to stop for good. Now if I have even a drag I get an asthma attack and headache right away. It's almost like my body became allergic to them.
Staying in school was also very hard. There were many many times I doubted I could do it. When I became ill it was an even larger challenge. But I knew the finish line was close.
That's the thing. I usually do my best when there are small steps along the way. Read this book, ace this test, excel at that class, graduate and move up. Repeat till goal is reached. Fully licensed with Masters in counseling psychology. Goal achieved!
Why can't I do the same with weight loss?
Hit the gym today to work out in the pool with weights. Go back three days a week. Lose 5lbs. Repeat. Maybe because I also have to watch what I eat, when I eat, how much I eat. On top of working out? Hmmmm. But the goals are still small and (pun intended) digestible.
I tried making a weight loss chart before with small goals and dates. That didn't work before. Tried portion control cups and plates. Naaaah. Prepared meals delivered to your door. Too expensive and not for us. Vegan, Vegetarian, Mediterranean, Atkins, high carb, low carb, no carb, pills, shots... You get the idea. So far nothing has really "clicked" for me.
Even my health wasn't the best motivator. My cravings and not so great habits are very strong. My addiction is very strong. I need to re-wire my brain and how I think about food. Fuel not food.
Like school I just need to find a pattern. A key to what works for me beyond willpower. Because I don't see that as my main issue. I just don't think I've found what works for me yet. But I'm confident that I will.
