Tides of Life

Nature teaches us so many important lessons, but most people don't pay any attention. The biggest lesson of all is not to become attached. Nothing is permanent. Nothing. We are a speck of algae afloat in an ocean so big we can't even see the edges. 

People chase youth like they haven't earned every laugh line and smile crease on their aging faces. We bleach and dye our hair and tattoo our faces to look ever younger. Slice and dice our beautiful, time marked skin to falsify ourselves.

I've never been a youth chaser. I like to do what makes me feel good. FOR ME. But not for anyone else. Our youth is not permanent. Even how our face looks today, this very moment. It will never look that way again. We are ever-changing creatures.

This was me in my 30's

Here I am at 52.

There are many times in history where I would be dead, or considered a super-elder. A wise woman in my tribe who outsmarted death. In today's society I'm just "middle aged." Or as my precious husband likes to put it "A Woman of a Certain Age."

I feel I laugh more, smile much much more (I used to be super conscious of my teeth. Now I'm just happy to still have them.) Forgive quickly. Help without question. Love harder. Hug longer. I truly appreciate each day and have nothing but gratitude for my life.

I should have died a handful of times over. Without modern science I would have. Each day is precious to me. I know that nothing lasts for ever. Especially not my fragile existence. Definitely not my outer beauty. And I'm ok with that.

Face It

My skin has been a hot mess lately. Huge pores, blackheads, pimples, you name it. I don't know if it's stress, a gift for "welcome to 50!" or hormones, but it has got to go. I have been feeling like I'm fighting a losing battle with my face.

I was looking online last night at some "good" store bought remedies. Not only did they cost a fortune, but they were full of chemicals. Even the "natural" ones. So after researching some of the ingredients that were helpful for acne I decided to make my own. "Hell! I own French lavender, aloe vera and rosemary bushes!" 

Here's the recipe I'm trying out. I invented it all on my own.

Compound (I put all this in a pot)

1 big bowl fresh French lavender heads (about 4 cups)

2 small springs rosemary

1 very large aloe leaf, split and de-goo'ed

2 tbsp coconut oil

2 tbsp olive oil

2 tbsp apricot seed oil

2 tbsp castor oil

2 cups distilled water

Steps

Bring mixture to a boil

Boil for 5 min

Lid and bring down to a simmer

Prepare small jars (1 cup), one for each treatment. Write on the lids what each one is, or label...

Soap

1 tbsp Pure Castille Soap

4 drops tea tree oil (natural disinfectant, good for acne)

Mixture

Lotion

1/2 tsp rubbing alcohol (as a preservative)

Mixture

Mask

4 tbsp European Clay

1/2 tsp rubbing alcohol (as a preservative)

Mixture

Simmer for a full hour

Strain (Press down to get all the oils and aloe from the pulp)

Add mixture to each jar evenly

Yields 3 cups

Bonus: Drink your water and listen to music while you wait.

Super Extra Bonus: While waiting put full fat whole organic yogurt on face. (share leftovers with your dog/cat.) Let stay till firm. Wash off and pat dry. Smear pure coconut oil on your hair and scalp. Cover with a kerchief or shower cap and let sit till you're done with your project. Wash off with shampoo and massage your scalp with warm water. Follow up with an apple cider vinegar/water rinse for the ultra treatment!

Why was my main ingredient lavender? Because it's a natural anti-inflammatory that's good for treating acne. It is also a natural calmer and can speed up the healing process.

Olive Oil: Has a similar lipid makeup to our natural skin. Helps with cellular regeneration.

Castor Oil: Anti-inflammatory, anti-microbal, immune system support. Great for acne.

Coconut Oil: Calms red skin, moisturizes and is easily absorbed by the skin.

Apricot Oil: Helps immune system like lavender. It's high in vitamin C and E so it works to fight acne and smooth my skin.

All oils help the skin retain moisture, my skin runs on the dry side so I need it.

European Clay: Is a favorite of mine. It naturally draws out impurities from the skin and gives the appearance of smaller pores. It works a lot like activated charcoal without the mess.

Aloe: Non-irritating and great for all skin. Healing properties. Moisturizing and anti-inflammation elements. 

Faces of Change

2015

Today - 2018