No... "Migraine" is much too small a word for what daemon has wrecked my life. The clinical term might be "migraine" but it's more like an evil possession.
Some of my current diagnosis
My muscle disease affects my body, but the migraines rob me of much more. Most days I feel like a shell... a ghost of my former self. It robs me of my memory, my attention, my eyes focusing, trusting what I'm seeing. It causes me stabbing pain, electric shocks, ear ringing, momentary hearing loss, throbbing pain, visual hallucinations and a general feeling of being really drunk or really high without ingesting anything.
Personally I think all of this is a side effect of my brain surgery on September 27th, 2018 (28 months ago). I read that nerve re-growth and associated issues can take around five years to heal. I would have proceeded with surgery anyway, but I wish someone would have gone over the side effects and talked to me about migraines.
My entire life I've infrequently had very minor headaches. I'd pop a few Excedrine and off it went. I knew people who struggled with migraines, but I thought it was just a super bad headache that maybe caused some nausea, light, sound and scent sensitivity and would last about 24hours. At best I feel like I knew a little bit more than the average person.
But when my migraine symptoms began it wasn't with any of that. I'd have a little headache behind my forehead. Just a tiny one. My symptoms started with feeling very dizzy. I felt like I was hearing myself talking from another room when I'd speak and hearing others talk I felt very far away. That's a big problem for a therapist. I was scared and had no idea what was going on.
I quickly became too dizzy to safely drive. My husband began taking me to work. After that I could "hang in there" till lunch time, but the symptoms just got worse. With it came the crushing fatigue. I wasn't just tired, I was completely exhausted. It felt a little bit like a horrible hangover.
The headaches began getting a bit worse, but the other symptoms increased quickly. I started to have trouble focusing, both mentally and physically. My eyes would go blurry, like I couldn't physically focus. Of course I still had my muscle issues as well. The worse my migraine symptoms became the weaker my other muscles were. Soon work was ordering me a text to type program for my files as I lacked the physical stamina to type for any length of time. But nothing helped and I became too compromised to work at all.
I had no idea what was going on. I talked to my primary care doctor, crying in his office. He sent me to a neurologist and an ear, nose throat doctor (otolaryngologist). Both of them diagnosed me with migraines right away. I kept arguing that it couldn't be migraines as my headaches "weren't that bad!" I had no idea that migraines take many shapes for different people with an enormous list of effects. I sure know that now!
Every... single... day I struggle with nightmarish symptoms.
I can't work.
Some days I can't even leave my house.
I'm proud of myself for getting out of bed, dressing and showering.
A big part of my life has been reduced to that of a small child.
I have a lot of feelings about that.
Grief
Loss
Anger
Sadness
Fear
My current treatment regimen involves:
- 32 Botox injections around my head and neck every three months.
- Monthly Emgality injection.
- A cocktail of Procholorperazine 5mg (for dizziness and nausea), Naratriptan 2.5mg and 2 Acetamenophin 500mg taken together as needed (but no more than three times a week).
These all help a little.
I'm still not myself though.
Still unable to do very much.
The worse my migraines are the more exhausted I am and the weaker. It's a nasty cycle. I'm hoping something will click soon to cause a massive improvement or they will heal and go away completely. That would be wonderful!
Until then I sometimes struggle to feel my worth. It takes a lot of intention and attention to really live in the moment. Not let each one slide by in a fog. I do have a beautiful life and I don't want to miss out on any of it.
