Showing posts with label disease. Show all posts
Showing posts with label disease. Show all posts

Monday, December 1, 2025

Disease Management

There are many ways that I have learned to manage my disease over the years. Online resources have been hugely helpful. Back when I was on Facebook, belonging to a support group there led to some helpful suggestions.

This website has also been a fantastic place to gain insight and knowledge, even on topics like sex as a person with Mitochondrial disease. My Mito.org

Of course my mobility tools have been key. The unpredictability of this disorder can cause me a lot of anxiety. I don't know how long I'll be able to stand or walk on any given day. Keeping tools in the car makes that anxiety much less and sets me up for a successful outing or vacation. 

The biggest way I manage my disease is with medication, supplements and rest. Electrolytes too. I used to try to push myself through a day without rest, only to find I'm then over-tired at night and have a lot of trouble sleeping. If I take the time to rest I have a much better evening and better quality sleep at night. Strange, I know.

My medication is pretty dialed in now. It has been for over a year. My migraine management is the only thing that changes occasionally. 

Of course there are other things that "help." Like making meals simple. I typically just have a protein bar for breakfast. Even though my husband says that's not a breakfast, it's a snack. My favorite go-to dinner is a chopped salad kit (easier to eat than a normal salad) with faux buffalo chicken on top. 

Keeping positive and managing my mood is important as well. Talking with my husband and other family or close friends is therapeutic. I don't keep things bottled up anymore. Managing my stress is also helpful. 

Attending regular appointments to measure things like my breathing, heart and neurological symptoms is a must. I have from two to four appointments with my muscular neurologist a year. Four with my migraine neurologist (though I'm in the process of seeing a new person, so there's been a massive delay with my next appointment.) I see my primary care about three times a year for various things. Then usually some kind of specialist a few times in the year. A dermatologist or gastroenterologist. Urgent care is for things like I can't get my "bad ear" unplugged and it's starting to hurt, or a I have a UTI (happens about twice a year.)

Honestly just knowing what to expect and why something is happening to me has been incredibly helpful. Like the last time I went to the ER after my flu vaccination. Now I know if that happens again what it is, what to do and what to expect. I won't just be crying my eyes out scared to death.

Managing any disease is very complicated and time consuming. All consuming really. Now I need a rest. 



Friday, June 29, 2018

Words Matter

Since entering the world of chronic illness I've noticed something disturbing in the language used to talk about it. Who hasn't heard "She's battling Cancer." Or "He's fighting addiction." Like we're all soldiers who signed up for some unseen war.

This goes for diseases like Rheumatoid Arthritis, Multiple Sclerosis, Lupus and many other life-long, life-changing challenges. And don't get me started on the terms we use for adaptive equipment like "wheelchair bound."

You know what? Words matter. I'm not battling myself. I'm not even fighting. Want to hear the true definition of fighting according to Websters English Dictionary?

1) Take part in a violent struggle involving the exchange of physical blows or the use of weapons.

2) Engage in a war or battle.

3) A violent confrontation or struggle.

Ummm, yeah. See the issue?

This doesn't describe my body, my life or my attitude at being as healthy as I can be. My immune system is over-eager and is mistaking my own tissue as not belonging to me. End of story. My challenges come from my own body. I don't want to be "violent" toward my body. I don't want to "struggle" with it either. I want to have kindness, love and nurture myself. That's what it needs. That's what I need! My body and myself are the same. If I fight my own body, I'm fighting myself and that's just the opposite of helpful.

And what do we say about people who die of an illness? They "lost their fight with cancer." Seriously. I've read that and heard it said many times. To me that implies some kind of defeat. If you dig even deeper it implies that they gave up or just weren't strong enough to win. And what do we say of people in remission? "They are a survivor." That's just twisted when you really stop and think about what those words actually mean.


Battle      Brave     Survivor
War         Lost       Losing
Fight       Fighting
Struggling

Words matter, so think about how words make you feel and what words you'd rather use about your very own personal disability.

But don't take my word for it. Here's an excellent article from a brilliant woman who passed away from her cancer. You can also easily replace the word "cancer" here for many other illnesses.

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