What Keeps Me Going

 

Did you know that the suicide rate of people with migraines is twice as high as the typical population? And that people with chronic migraines (what I have) are 42.9% more likely to kill themselves than people with episodic migraines? As someone who lives with never ending migraines these numbers don't surprise me. (read the full study here)

I have wished for death before and I'm sure it will come up again. But I would never ever act on it. Despite the constant pain, vertigo, and insane impact on me. And it is INSANE! There is no better word. Despite all of that, what keeps me going? What keeps me here?

Of course Love is #1. Especially love for my wonderful, amazing, fantastic family. They keep me laughing, keep me positive and try to help me as much as they can. I also think they'd all be screwed without me.

Shockingly my doctors would have to be #2. I know many people don't have that luxury of a fantastic medical team. Although they take a lot of time and effort on my end, they also provide me with a lot of relief and answers. I wouldn't have known that I was suffering major migraines without the Neurologist and ENT stepping in and educating me. I also would never have known to try Botox, the one thing that has consistently helped me.

Here are a few other things that not only keep me from killing myself, but make me smile and help me to thrive.

My beautiful garden that I created with my husband.

Silly, fun games that we play together.

We used to LOVE playing all kinds of games and puzzles, but when my Botox has worn off and I'm feeling "like garbage" (like now), these little iPhone games are about all I can manage. I love that we do them together.

Getting out of the house and into nature.

Any kind of nature! I can't drive, but I can wheel my chair around my small town. I can also go to and from my Mama's home. It's great to get out on my own and it gives me a feeling of autonomy, which is vital.

It's important for me to feel in charge of my body as much as I can. Maybe that's why I'm always cutting and coloring my hair.

All of these and millions of other tiny things are why I'm here today. Still fighting through the quicksand of symptoms. Of course a big sleep and some movies in bed now and again never hurt either.

And of course the...