Facing Down Fear

I have signed up to take my license exam. It's the final step to becoming a fully fledged Marriage and Family Therapist. This is what I've worked so hard for over the last 10+ years. It's a very big deal and what was supposed to be the climax of my academic career. But it doesn't feel like that now.

It has been 11 months since I left my job because of my many chronic conditions. In the end it was the unrelenting migraines that were just too much for me to work through. This was my dream. To get my license and to help people and I'm still convinced I can do that in some capacity in the future. It won't look how I expected, but when does life ever work out how we plan?

Millions of people around the world have had their future plans completely derailed by Covid. Just because my cause is different doesn't make my situation any more special. Life is nothing if not unpredictable.

It has been very hard for me to study. Every question reminds me of my past work with clients and what I had to give up. I know that will fade the more that I study. I have five months before my test to work through my feelings and learn the questions. I've accomplished much harder tasks in the past.

I can almost hear the Helen Reddy song that my Mother would sing when I was little. It's very fitting to my situation. I don't always feel this way, but the strength of such mantras are helpful.

..."Oh yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to, I can do anything
I am strong
(Strong)
I am invincible
(Invincible)
I am woman"