Sex and Progressive Disability

It seems as if every article and blog on the internet that addresses sex and disability does so from the point of view that the person has always been the way that they are. I have found hardly any information in my scouring that talks about what happens when you have a progressive disability or illness. Which is very sad because it has a HUGE impact on your sex life.

My neurologist told me last week that my issue (COQ6 gene mutation that causes COQ10 deficiency that causes Metabolic Myopathy) is progressive and degenerative. It was something I suspected but it was still hard to hear. Although it did light a fire under my butt (pun intended) to try and find something that would help my sex life.

My husband is amazing and is always open to trying anything that might help me, even if it costs us money. I've tried a vibrator in the past, but I don't think it was strong enough for my muscles. We also have a "wedge pillow" that is amazing. I can't speak highly enough of support pillows with any kind of muscle condition and intimacy. So although I still was enjoying sex, I had been unable to have an orgasm for a long time.

One of my issues is muscle cramps and spasms that happen most of the time. My neurologist recommended I try CBD for it and said it would help. A friend of mine from my Muscular Dystrophy support group suggested I try a tincture. One trip to our local dispensary (it's legal in my State) and $80 later and I was equipped with something that has been helping me. I thought it might also just help my orgasms?

My husband and I made a trip out to a very female forward sex store called Good Vibrations. They helped me find a new vibrator that could be helpful, along with some other muscle support devices to try out. BINGO!!! A stronger, more adjustable, larger vibrator did the trick. My orgasm has changed a lot though and felt very different. But I was still happy to get there.

NEVER GIVE UP! My tenacity paid off once more. Don't be afraid to experiment and invest some money on your sexual pleasure. It's important and helpful for your mood.

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