Finding my Limits

My husband is away on a business trip and I felt a huge urge to cook last night. I had all the ingredients to make some things that I didn't think sounded very difficult. It felt within my wheelhouse. It didn't go great.

I managed to finish off what I had started, but only out of sheer stubbornness. I didn't know where my boundaries were when it came to cooking, but I sure found out the hard way. 

It was the first time I could feel my energy failing mid-work. I could feel myself getting more and more fatigued. And I'm not talking just my muscles. That feeling I'm used to. This was something new. 

It was a slow energy drain. Like a bucket full of water that has a leak. I could feel myself getting more and more tired with each thing I did. Even just standing looking at what was cooking. It was honestly a terrifying feeling. 

I felt scared that I wouldn't be able to finish before I had to go lay down. Frightened that I bit off more than my body could chew. Shocked that such a small thing could drain me so quickly. Regretful at my decision to cook so much and not just wait for my Mom to help me. And sad for myself that I was having that experience.

The whole thing wasn't all bad though. I don't know my limits if I don't test them. I also won't understand what's going on with my body if I don't pay attention. To have that very real feeling of my energy draining rapidly due to being overloaded, as scary as it was, is also helpful. My disease isn't just all about my muscles.

I told my husband the other day that I wondered if my need to rest mid way through the day is due to my doing so much when I'm awake. Especially physical things like showering, dressing, putting things in the house away, etc. I walked a touch over a mile yesterday just by doing these things. That's quite a bit for me.

The tricky thing about my "limits" is that they are constantly changing. What I can do today I have no guarantee of being able to do tomorrow. So that makes me feel in a bit of a panicked rush. I have a constant feeling of pressure to do everything that I can today because it might be the last time I can do it ever.

(I wanted to take a picture of some food that got dropped on the floor as I was cooking, but I didn't want my dog to get it so I hurriedly cleaned it up instead. I always tell my husband "It's not a day with me unless I drop something.")