Little Pleasures

Little pleasures pack a big punch and mean a lot to me.

I used to find pleasure in good grades, a helpful session with a client, a big vacation... big moments. Sure little moments were nice too, but they were often overshadowed by bigger expectations.

One of the gifts I now have is that ability to find pure bliss in the smallest thing. A perfect dandelion on a walk. Free plants found to nurture back to health. A morning cuddle with my man. Petting my soft dog. All of these make me feel as happy as I felt eating seafood in Dublin Ireland. 

But it's more than that. These series of small moments weave together to form the tapestry of my happy life. They feel like little shooting stars in the night sky bringing a surprise of pleasure to my day. I feel fortunate not just to have them, but to see them. They were always there, but often I was too focused on the bigger joys to really soak them in. Staring so hard at the planets if you will that I missed the magic of the stars.

When I learned to relax my tight grip on expectations, my future and even the day, I started to enjoy my treasures even more. Sinking into my soft bed to rest. Snuggling with my stuffed shark. The warm water as I take a long shower. I'm incredibly lucky to have too many of these moments to count.